Are you crushing on someone but now you think it is finally time for them to notice you and think about you? Everyone wants to have a crush that makes over us and falls in love with us. You never should have to manipulate this person or beg them to like you.
There are some things that you can do that can make your crush see you and then they can decide if they like you or not.
Making Them Like You
Have you ever noticed that some people crush for years and then they end up being married? Chances are they will wait until they are mature enough to really manage love and then the rest will be history.
Most crushes will not ever turn into anything seriously and chances are if you are waiting years for them to fall for you, it still might not happen, plus, who wants to wait that long?
Whatever happens in your life, you cannot force someone to like you but you can make changes that makes you irresistible and even if your crush doesn’t fall for you, chances are someone else will.
You cannot force someone to fall for you, but you can remember that you are who you are, and they can take it or leave it. Be the best you can, and you will see that there is someone out there for you.
Show off your successes and stop pretending to be someone you aren’t. You will eventually show who you are anyways so why not from the beginning. Be true to yourself and let the right one finds you.
You need to flirty and show someone that you are interested. Making eye contact is one of the best ways that you can communicate your feelings about someone. Do not be creepy, just make eye contact.
If you like someone, get to know who they hang out with. They will learn who you are and then if you’re their friend ends up liking you, then good!
Even though you have a crush on someone it doesn’t mean you really know them. You may find that you do not even like them once you get to know them. Take time to get to know someone before you would ever consider being serious.
Put It Away
If your crush comes close to you, put your phone away and talk to them. You might not always get opportunities like this so don’t waste it sitting on social media.
You need to find what you have in common with your crush. See what makes you similar with them and what will create a bond.
A little flirting is good and will show that you aren’t looking for a friendship but for something more. Let your personality shine through and show them how interested you are in them.
Give your crush time and then you can learn what you like about them. You may also learn about all of their flaws and quirks along the way. See if you are really connected.
Once you start getting to know your crush, tell them how you feel. No one is ever really sure what someone is feeling and if you do not want to waste time, tell them.
Not the Same
Do not get upset if your crush does not feel the same way about you. There is always a chance that they will but there is also a chance that they won’t.
No matter if someone likes you or not, it doesn’t make you any less of a person. The feelings of others are not a reflection of you. Not everyone is going to fall in love with you, but someone will. If this one doesn’t work out, be patient.
You cannot control how someone feels about you, but you can give them a chance to show you. If they do not like you or feel the same as you, move forward. You don’t want to be with someone that doesn’t share your chemistry anyways.